October, 8 1982. Mother wrote in her diary that she slept till midday that day and wakened feeling refreshed, stuffed with a renewed sense of hope. She had an appointment along with her psychologist that afternoon, so she grabbed her rest room equipment and headed for the widespread lavatory within the resort the place she’d taken up residency after life on the streets.

When she walked in and he or she noticed a giant, bald, utterly nude man standing in entrance of a mirror. His muscle groups, coated in jail tattoos, rippled as he brushed his tooth, whereas his penis swung forwards and backwards to match the rhythm. Unfazed by Peggy’s sudden look behind him, the 6-foot-2-inch man merely continued his brushing. Frozen in her stance, Mother, who appeared like a younger Mary Tyler Moore, couldn’t take her eyes off him. When he lowered his brushing arm, she may see the phrases “BAD BOY” written throughout his chest. At the least, that was how the selfmade tattoo learn within the mirror. He should have etched it into his pores and skin whereas utilizing a mirror as a information, as a result of when he rotated, straight on it learn, “YOB DAB.” With a mouthful of toothpaste, he barked, “Fuck you lookin’ at?”

“Nothing,” stated Mother, sounding like a mouse.

“So I’m nothin’, huh bitch? Get yo’ ass out dis mothafuckin’ toilet till I’m finished.”

He didn’t have to inform Mother twice.

Again in her room, she realized she was going to must see Dr. Leibowitz with out showering. Afraid to return into the toilet, she snuck into the fireplace emergency stairwell and urinated on the ground. She was midstream when she realized a person in a enterprise swimsuit was only some ft from her, receiving a silent hand job from one of many resort’s cross-dressing residents. She completed peeing and left with out them noticing her.

That night time, after her physician’s appointment and a shift at work, Mother was sitting on the stoop on the entrance of the resort, smoking a cigarette, when “Bad Boy,” the person from the toilet, got here out the entrance door. Mother was nonetheless afraid of him, however she tried to not present it when he requested for a cigarette. She shook a Fortunate out of the pack and held it out for him. He thanked her and lit a match together with his thumbnail.

“Was you the one came in seeing me brushin’ this mornin’?” he requested.

Mother nodded sure.

“Sorry ’bout that. I was, like, in a bad mood.”

He completed his cigarette and tossed it on the bottom.

“I was tired this morning,” he stated, as a manner of additional apologizing. He added that if Mother had any issues with anybody, right here on the resort or anyplace else, she ought to come to him and he would care for it. His title was Carter, Mother would quickly study. He was 28 and had spent greater than half his life within the juvenile or jail programs. His specialty was robbing drug sellers as a result of they at all times carried lots of money.

He was the primary of many associates Mother would make on the Jane West Resort.

CHAPTER 1: Out on Her Own

My mom, Margaret “Peggy” Hannity, was born on July 14, 1946, in Harlem, the daughter of an Irish Catholic building employee who drank nearly as a lot as he labored and a Scottish lady who moved to New York Metropolis as quickly as she was in a position, keen to take in the intense lights of the legendary large metropolis. Jack drank away most of what he earned, so Beatrice labored full-time too, leaving Peggy to assist out along with her two youthful siblings’ homework, in addition to packing their lunches and getting them off to high school.

Peggy graduated highschool with an A common, then took secretarial and nursing programs at group faculty whereas waitressing in a theater district diner on weekends. I believe that was the start of her troubles. Quickly she was hanging out backstage along with her actor associates after exhibits. This was her first introduction to social consuming, which I assume ought to have set off warning lights for her. However like her mom, she was drawn to the glamour.

Her partying days didn’t final lengthy. In 1964, on the age of 19, Mother discovered she was pregnant. The boy who’d knocked her up, a handsome mechanic named Robert Hayden, “did the right thing” and married her. They spent their wedding ceremony reception at McSorley’s, an Irish alehouse within the East Village well-known for its sawdust-covered flooring, and located a two-bedroom in Higher Manhattan, the place I used to be born in the summertime of ’64.

Mother received a job as a secretary on Wall Avenue, however her consuming solely received worse, and by ’68 Dad walked out. Now not in a position to afford the residence, she moved us all again in along with her mom. Grandpa Jack was gone too, having left one night to purchase cigarettes and by no means returning. Along with her mom and sister as built-in babysitters, Mother partied along with her associates increasingly, spending much less and fewer time at dwelling with me.

In 1970 she met Joe, a bond dealer and rising star on the agency the place she labored. They dated for a couple of yr, married in a civil ceremony, and we moved to a dear residence in Brooklyn. Mother stop her job on the brokerage home, however as a substitute of staying dwelling enjoying home, she saved going into the town to satisfy associates, eat, drink and smoke weed. She usually got here dwelling late at night time, and the babysitting fell to Joe’s mother and father. He pleaded along with her to see a psychologist, or discover a clinic the place she may attempt to get a deal with on her consuming. Mother went ballistic, and that was the top of Joe.

It was the summer season of ’78. I used to be 14 and it was transferring time once more, this time far down the social ladder to a flat within the rough-and-tough Pink Hook part of Brooklyn. Mother moved in with Kevin, a man she knew from an outdated job. I don’t bear in mind a lot about him, besides that I couldn’t perceive why Mother was with him. There was just one mattress, so I slept on a comforter on the ground. Finally, I packed up my few belongings and moved again in with my grandmother in Manhattan.

One night time in February of 1982, whereas Mother was out God is aware of the place, Kevin received along with just a few of his buddies and moved all his belongings out of the residence. Alone within the residence with no furnishings, no electrical energy, and no method to pay the hire, Mother didn’t know the place to go or what to do. Then a sheriff and his crew got here and evicted her, leaving her alone on the road with solely a rubbish bag of belongings. At that time, she’d had so many clashes with my grandmother that she would fairly do something than swallow her delight and name her to ask for assist.

There was nowhere to go however down.

Mother discovered a ladies’s shelter, and through her first, fearful night time sleeping on a cot, she held her belongings shut and didn’t even take off her footwear. Even so, in the midst of the night time one other lady stole them proper off her ft.

The following morning, Mother picked up her single rubbish bag of belongings and walked out of the shelter barefoot, then into the primary subway entrance she stumbled on. For the subsequent yr she lived within the subways, watching folks go to and from work, imagining their lives then curling up within the recesses of a station for a peaceable sleep. She started to discover the bowels of the system, unused tunnels that have been occupied by a group of cast-aside characters. At some point she walked by a teenage lady carrying Mickey Mouse ears, mendacity again, capturing heroin; an older man masturbating, holding a tattered Playboy journal; a screaming lady who thought Mother was making an attempt to choose up her boyfriend as a result of she had innocently stepped over the sleeping man. Mother shortly discovered to maintain transferring so as to keep out of hurt’s manner. She rode the trains for hours at a time, going forwards and backwards and nowhere, daydreaming about get again to an honest life. She at all times carried an aluminum thermos of water beneath her coat, tied to a rope, filling it from leaky fireplace hydrants and in addition utilizing it as a weapon on a number of events. Most instances one swing did the trick, sufficient to scare off undesirable firm.

She spoke as soon as with a discipline employee from the New York Metropolis Division of Homeless Companies, who provided her an honest meal, medical providers, even a roof over her head. She was tempted, however a pair of sneakers she discovered within the subway have been nonetheless the one footwear she had, and the thought of going again to a shelter and having them stolen was one thing she couldn’t take care of. Thanks, she advised them, however uh-uh, no thanks.

Then one scary encounter modified every part. It occurred on a wet night time in Higher Manhattan. Mother was in an exceptionally filthy subway lavatory at an elevated station, utilizing a trickling faucet to clean out her underwear. The bathroom stalls didn’t have doorways, and one was occupied by a lady utilizing her buying cart stuffed with junk to provide herself some privateness. Abruptly, a person bumped into the toilet, his eyes large and loopy. When he noticed Mother, he pulled a big steak knife from his inside coat pocket.

“Your ass is my ass tonight, bitch.” He stared at her as he opened his fly together with his free hand. When he was uncovered, he approached Mother, who pulled her coat tight round herself as a defend. On the final minute, when she may see the yellows of his noticed eyes, she swung her thermos, knocking the knife out of his hand, adopted by a swift kick to his groin. He grabbed her hair and pulled her all the way down to the chilly tile ground. Mother screamed on the high of her lungs as he positioned himself out on high of her.

All of a sudden, he jerked up and screamed, swearing in Spanish. Mother may see blood in all places as he rolled off of her, She had no concept what, or whom, had saved her, till she noticed the girl from the opposite stall standing over him, her pants nonetheless round her ankles, an extended Japanese sword in a single hand, tinted the colour of darkish blood. (To be sincere, I used to be initially considerably skeptical about this a part of her story myself. However years later, as a cop, I ran right into a homeless lady within the Staten Island Ferry terminal who additionally had a sword in a buying cart. This encounter satisfied me that Mother was on the extent along with her personal sword story. Evidently, I tossed the weapon within the river.)

Not realizing or caring if the man was useless, Mother grabbed her moist underwear and rushed out of the restroom. She knew it was time to rethink letting the town assist her discover protected housing. As quickly as she noticed the omnipresent outreach van, she went as much as the window and requested if there was anyplace she may keep. The social employee had one voucher left, for an S.R.O. (single room occupancy) — the Jane West Resort, positioned within the wild west fringe of the West Village. Mother knew that this was a last-stop flophouse. S.R.O.s are buildings the place small rooms, usually with no personal kitchens or loos, are rented out; in Nineteen Eighties New York there have been many such S.R.O.s, often for low-income and previously homeless folks, and sometimes in derelict circumstances. However it was a roof over her head, one which was free, personal and comparatively protected. She thanked the guy as she entered the van for the fast trip to the Village, about to go by the gates of her subsequent journey.

CHAPTER 2: New Friends and Old Demons

The six-story, red-brick constructing that housed the Jane West Resort, on the nook of Jane and West streets, appeared to be in good structural form for its age, light and dirty because it was, like a warrior after a battle, worn down however nonetheless standing. An imposing cupola sat atop it like a crown, and a three-foot black wrought-iron fence surrounded the constructing, giving the resort a really feel extra like a fortress than a flophouse.

The social employee escorted Mother up the entrance steps and into the large foyer space, which had the heft and really feel of a small area. Mother sensed this place had a colourful historical past. Within the Nineteen Thirties it was the “Seaman’s Retreat Center,” a resting place for sailors. A light foyer plaque advised her that the surviving passengers of the Titanic had stayed there in 1912. The social employee gave mother a listing of telephone numbers for advantages and a few subway tokens so she may report back to the closest social providers workplace as quickly as she was settled in.

“Good luck,” he stated, then shook Mother’s hand and left.

The desk clerk, Charlie — Chicky to everybody on the Jane West Resort — got here out of the again room. A World Conflict II Navy veteran and one-time newbie boxer, Chicky had seen higher days. He didn’t say a phrase as he slipped her key by the opening on the backside of the steel cage display screen atop the desk (like one thing one would see in an outdated practice station) and pointed to an indication on the wall:



“If you flat back or peddle ass in this place, I get a taste of the take,” Chicky commanded. “Got it, sweetie?”

Mother blushed, then nodded her head shortly. When she lastly discovered her voice, she stated, softly however firmly, “I’m not a pro or a whore, or whatever perverted thing you may think, sir. Watch your tone with me, otherwise we’ll have a problem. Got it, sweetie?”

They checked out one another for a few seconds, like two boxers in a hoop, earlier than Chicky smiled and stated, “You’re OK, kid. I’m Chicky.” He motioned for the sleepy safety guard to escort Mother as much as her room. The residents knew him as Clifford, however they often referred to as him Bigfoot due to his girth. Standing at an imposing 6 ft 5 inches, he at all times wore suspenders and had a dime-store police badge pinned to one of many straps. He launched himself to Mother, carried her rubbish bag of belongings over to the elevator prefer it was a designer purse, and instructed Richie, the uniformed elevator operator, to take them as much as Room 412. (Fast be aware: I’ve used pseudonyms for Richie and a number of the different folks on this story, in circumstances the place I recall the particular person however don’t bear in mind their title. The entire occasions described on this piece are actual, nevertheless; they arrive from Mother’s diaries and notes, tales she advised to me, or my very own reminiscence; in some locations, I’ve recreated particular scenes and dialogue as greatest I may.)

When she opened the door to her room, she noticed a steel bedframe and a mattress, a small dresser, and two tilted cabinets hanging precariously on the wall. The recessed window appeared out right into a shaftway. For a window curtain, the earlier tenant had hung a sheet.

Mother headed to the widespread lavatory and took her first sizzling bathe in she couldn’t bear in mind how lengthy. The nice and cozy water invigorated her, and as she toweled off, she started to assume, How the hell did I get to this place in my life? She considered me, for the primary time, actually, since she’d been put out on the road. She determined to provide me a name from the foyer payphone when she was dressed, to let me know she was OK.

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I used to be nonetheless residing with Beatrice, my grandmother, who handed me the receiver after just a few phrases along with her daughter. I provided to return see Mother, however she stated no, she wasn’t prepared. I wished to inform her about passing the highschool equivalency diploma check, about working in an auto physique store throughout the day, and evenings stocking cabinets at a grocery store. However the entire name lasted simply three minutes. Mother stated she would name again in a day or two, then hung up.

I heard the press and put my head in each of my fingers.

Mother managed to get a job answering telephones at a close-by Chinese language restaurant, and he or she used the small quantity of additional money she made to brighten her room. She added window curtains and, with Bigfoot’s assist, hung a brand new shelf and positioned a porcelain Statue of Liberty figurine on it. The ultimate contact was mounting a crucifix on the within of her door. She started calling me from the foyer payphone as soon as per week, and he or she additionally began to hold across the S.R.O.’s threadbare lounge, which is the place she met Emilio.

Emilio had brief, darkish hair and at all times wore a darkish sweat swimsuit — besides when he went to the widespread lavatory and become a skintight purple miniskirt and matching wig. He was in his 20s, younger sufficient to look good as a person or lady, and he used that to his benefit at nights, when he picked up purchasers within the close by Meatpacking District. He and Mother clicked. She discovered him fascinating, artistic, even perhaps creative, like her outdated theater associates. Emilio invited her as much as his room to point out her his wardrobe. Whereas there, he provided her a beer. It had been a number of months since she’d had a drink, however she couldn’t resist. After her third one, she was laughing and speaking to Emilio like they have been outdated associates. He rolled a joint and shortly they have been each excessive, laughing like two teenage women.

From a really younger age, Mother had at all times favored the world of style, and there was a time, one other life in the past, when she thought she would possibly develop into a clothes designer. Now she began serving to Emilio create his working outfits, which he modeled for her in full drag. The brand new friendship reinvigorated her, nevertheless it was additionally harmful. At some point, after aiding Emilio together with his wardrobe planning, Mother stumbled again to her room and handed out drunk on the mattress.

At Christmastime, Mother added Jägermeister, Bailey’s Irish Crème and Mint Schnapps to her well-stocked liquor cupboard, and was even in a position to persuade Chicky to cough up cash for a man-made Christmas tree to place within the foyer, together with a menorah in case any of the residents have been Jewish. She, Emilio and two of his associates, Gordon and Gary, put up the tree decorations, which consisted of colourful socks, cut-up beer cans, condoms and rolling papers. To high it off, Mother received up on a stepladder as the fellows held it regular so she may connect an elaborate star she’d made out of aluminum foil.

Gordon and Gary, a.okay.a. the G&G brothers, have been of their early 20s, each homosexual. They appeared, dressed and acted alike. Clear-shaven with neatly combed hair, they might have handed for a few faculty seniors. The G&G brothers liked to sing and had goals of changing into knowledgeable duo. They spent lots of their time within the hallways, belting by the complete soundtrack of Saturday Evening Fever and the new new Broadway musical Cats.

Gordon and Gary, a.okay.a. the G&G brothers, have been of their early 20s, each homosexual. They appeared, dressed and acted alike. Clear-shaven with neatly combed hair, they might have handed for a few faculty seniors. The G&G brothers liked to sing and had goals of changing into knowledgeable duo. They spent lots of their time within the hallways, belting by the complete soundtrack of Saturday Evening Fever and the new new Broadway musical Cats.

However they weren’t the highest showbiz expertise on the S.R.O. That title went to a younger Black man by the title of RuPaul. Mother may see instantly that he had the voice, charisma and presence to be a giant performer in the future. RuPaul lived within the resort’s giant cupola, the fortified brick turret on the high of the constructing, together with two different males; one appeared like Freddie Mercury and was nearly at all times shirtless, displaying off his good abs. They have been fairly the trio, usually the middle of social actions. There’s a video of the three of them cavorting across the resort on YouTube.

The S.R.O’s ballroom had been transformed to a theater not lengthy earlier than Mother arrived, and RuPaul would carry out there in drag. Some notable exhibits even made their debut there years later, most notably Hedwig and the Indignant Inch, a musical centered round a genderqueer rock singer, in 1998. (Years later, the now-famous RuPaul reminisced to the New York Put up, “when I did have money, I would rent a room at the Jane West Hotel — when I was getting some go-go dancing gigs or I could perform to my own songs. It was a dump. It had that distinctive New York smell — it’s like a mixture of mold, soot and grime. The only place you can smell that now is in the subway.”)

One other resident, Wanda, was a brief, heavyset 30-year-old lady with a aptitude for the dramatic. That Christmas, she received drunk and excessive and wandered the resort carrying nothing however a Santa hat and a garland wrapped round her. She banged on each door till the occupant opened, then belted out Christmas carols.

There was at all times one thing happening on the S.R.O. One winter night time Mother stopped onto the third ground, which had a fame for being the partying ground, principally due to its youthful tenants. They would depart their doorways large open and go from room to room like they have been in a university dorm, consuming beer and dreaming up merriment. As Mother peeked her head within the third-floor stairwell door this night, she noticed two lengths of fireplace hose working parallel to at least one one other alongside the ground. At one finish of the hose have been a dozen beer bottles, arrange like bowling pins. On the different finish was Diamond, a stupendous younger blonde she’d met within the lounge just a few weeks earlier, who spent most nights working as a name lady. Diamond was crouching whereas holding a big, bowling ball–sized wad of aluminum foil, whereas a crowd lined the makeshift bowling lane, cheering her on. She rotated and advised my mother, “I come out the bathroom and they ask me to roll this big thing of, whatever. But really, I think they just want to see my boobs flop out my bathrobe.” She turned again round and rolled a strike, then gave Mother a tipsy excessive 5.

From our conversations, I may sense she was bonding with a number of of the opposite residents, in all probability as a result of a lot of their plights have been just like hers. They shared food and drinks and frolicked on a regular basis. I assume they leaned on one another for assist. However whereas Mother was spreading vacation cheer across the resort, she was nonetheless hurting on the within. I may inform, as a result of she referred to as me a number of instances, nonetheless refusing to inform me the place she was as a result of she didn’t need me to go to. However we had lengthy talks and he or she went into particulars concerning the folks she lived with. I knew in my coronary heart that she was partying once more. That was the rationale why she didn’t need to see me.

Mother spent a lot of the winter hanging along with her new associates on the resort, getting drunk or excessive, losing her time and her life away, getting fired from her job on the restaurant. She didn’t care; she was sick of Chinese language meals anyway. As an alternative, she grew to become the S.R.O.’s resident mentor. She frolicked within the lounge, the place her favourite seat was an elaborate, fake Louis XV chair the place she would perch and fawn over her topics. She exuded relative class and allure, and allotted fascinating commentary to anybody who would hear: homosexual, straight, younger, outdated, Black, white — the S.R.O. was stuffed with each sort of particular person, and Mother liked speaking to anybody and everybody.

The residents quickly sought her recommendation on every part from household issues to style (she particularly liked serving to all the cross-dressing residents with their outfits), training, enterprise (Emilio requested her recommendation on whether or not he may write off breast implants as a enterprise expense) and job-hunting abilities (she was a improbable typist and volunteered to assist different residents sort up their resumes). There was even a younger lady, Terri, not more than 20, whom Mother helped study to learn and write after she noticed her within the lounge in the future, struggling to sound out phrases within the newspaper. Mother had actually fallen far, however she had extra of an training than most on the S.R.O. and he or she was proud to have the ability to provide them the abilities that she had. She was good at this, serving to. If solely she may do the identical for herself, she advised herself, again and again.

Springtime sunshine brightened up my mother’s world, and he or she discovered a brand new job as a part-time waitress at a close-by Greek diner. The additional cash meant she may get a telephone in her room and would not have to make use of the one within the foyer.

As quickly as phrase received out she was working on the diner, Emilio and Bigfoot got here round, searching for freebies. She did what she may, beneath the watchful eye of the proprietor, Spiro. She shortly developed her personal regular regulars, principally businessmen who favored her a lot they usually made passes within the type of job provides. She at all times wrote down their numbers or took their playing cards — stated she would give it some thought. Not likely although. She was now considerably content material with the rung of the ladder she had managed to climb to. She was scared that if she tried to skip too many steps, she was prone to fall flat on her fairly face once more.

CHAPTER 3: Piercing Her World

Whereas serving a stack of pancakes to prospects in one of many cubicles, Mother received a creepy feeling that she was being watched. Not by Spiro, who was at all times ensuring she put all of the money into the register, however another person.

On the way in which again from the sales space, she noticed me sitting on the finish of the counter.

Mother walked over, slowly at first, afraid to consider it was true. It had been almost two years. I used to be 17 now. Lastly, she smiled and requested how I discovered her. On her break, we walked over to the Hudson River. With the slow-moving boat site visitors as background to our dialog, I defined that one of many messengers on the Wall Avenue agency the place I used to be working was a childhood buddy of mine who remembered her. He casually advised me he’d as soon as seen her sitting on the steps of the S.R.O. smoking a cigarette whereas speaking to “some weird chick.” I made a decision to go to, the place I met Clifford, a.okay.a. Bigfoot, who directed me to the diner.

As a tug pushing a barge floated silently by, she requested, “How is everyone doing?”

“Everyone is fine, Mom.” I hadn’t stated “Mom” in such a very long time. It felt sort of good, regular.

“Oh, that’s good,” she stated cheerfully.

“I got my high school equivalency diploma last year.”

Mother smiled. “Congratulations.” We talked for some time, however we each felt awkward. I requested if I may see her residence, however she wasn’t prepared for that and made up an excuse about why I couldn’t.

On the practice again uptown, I felt a tough unhappiness. I wished to rescue her, to take her out of that shithole, however she really appeared to love being there. My coronary heart was each hardened and damaged.

Again in her room, her personal waterfall of feelings cascaded down. She was thrilled to see me and was glad I used to be all proper, but by some means she felt I had pierced the fragile world she had created for herself. Her survival mechanism had been uncovered, and he or she was embarrassed I had seen her this fashion.

For the subsequent a number of months, I might cease by the S.R.O. unannounced to investigate cross-check Mother, to inform her how involved I used to be about her. She at all times waved me off as being paranoid and advised me to toughen up, that life wasn’t at all times fairly or good. Our visits usually resulted in loud arguments. She denied utilizing medicine; I knew she was mendacity. She had, in truth, begun experimenting with capsules, and I demanded to know the place she was getting them.

It took me some time to search out out who the pusher was. One night time in 1984, I finished by to see her unannounced, and that’s when Bigfoot received a maintain of me. Carrying that silly dime-store police badge on his suspenders, he sidled proper up with an I’ve to speak to you look on his face. I used to be stunned when he stated he revered me for attempting to speak some sense into my mom. He appeared round to see if anybody else was watching, then advised me, “The guy you want is Miguel. He lives in Room 441, and you didn’t get this from me.”

I went to Room 441 and knocked aggressively. After I advised Miguel I used to be Peggy’s son, he grew to become very pleasant and requested me to return in, to have a beer with him, which I graciously declined. I stood within the doorway, measuring my phrases, calmly telling him to cease supplying my mom with medicine as a result of they have been hurting her rehabilitation. He immediately did a 180.

“Your mother gets what she wants from me because it makes her feel good,” he stated. “That’s the way it is, man.” He lifted his shirt to disclose a knife tucked into his waistband. That was sufficient for me. I thrust a clenched fist into his jaw with such power that he stumbled backward and collapsed on the mattress. After just a few seconds, he received up slowly, dazed, and tried to tug his knife out. Earlier than he may, I delivered a flurry of punches and he flopped to the ground, his face coated in blood. I leaned over and advised him if he ever provided my mom with medicine once more, I might put him within the hospital for a really very long time.

As I closed the door behind me, I noticed Mother standing in entrance of her room. She cowered barely as I walked previous. I turned to her and smiled. “What are you worried about? I just saved your life, so toughen up.”

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Somebody had heard the commotion and referred to as 911. Miguel didn’t speak to the cops about who beat him up, however they did discover a considerable amount of medicine on his night time desk, sufficient to arrest him for felony possession with intent to distribute. I heard that after being handled on the hospital, he was launched into custody and finally despatched again to jail for violating the phrases of his parole. I by no means noticed him once more. So far as I do know, neither did Mother.

Mother was at all times bouncing between jobs, and like most everybody on the resort, by no means positive the place her subsequent greenback was going to return from. At some point, James, a fellow resident, requested her for a favor. “Would you be interested in walking some dogs for me this Friday afternoon?” he stated. “I have a very important meeting I have to attend.” It shortly grew to become clear that he had no possession connection to the canines. Individuals paid him to stroll their canines twice a day. He stated he would pay her to cowl him for one afternoon.

“How many dogs are we now talking about?” Mother requested.

“Only six,” James stated.

“OK, I’ll do it.”

Friday morning, James got here to Peggy’s room with the keys, addresses and residence numbers of every canine. “Pick them up around 4 o’clock, walk them along the piers, let them do their business, and bring them home. It should take no more than an hour.” She did simply as he stated, strolling them as one group of six, three on every hand. The canines have been nicely behaved. It was a easy job and a quick payday. Till, that’s, she received again to the constructing and bumped into an sudden downside. She couldn’t bear in mind which residence was related to which canine. She had the paper with the residence numbers and canine’s names, however nothing describing their breeds and colours. She tried calling out every canine’s title, nevertheless it didn’t work. As a result of Mother by no means owned a canine, she didn’t assume to take a look at their collars, the place 5 of the six had tags with their names. In her panic, she took her greatest guess and returned the canines to what she thought have been the proper residences.

The following morning, an indignant James got here to her room to choose up the keys, and Mother knew what he was going to say; she had put all six canines within the flawed residences. James stated one girl almost fainted when she received dwelling to find her cairn terrier had develop into an English sheepdog. Mother thought this was sort of humorous however didn’t dare giggle.

Chapter Four: On The Edge

One Saturday morning, Mother was up early to go grocery buying. When she returned to the resort, Bigfoot helped carry her groceries up the steps and to her room, then again down as he stated he had one thing to point out her. She had a humorous feeling he was as much as one thing. Emilio, too, was appearing unusual. After which, when she turned the nook to enter the lounge, folks inside erupted with a unified belt of “Surprise!”

Mother was shocked as Emilio, Gordon, Gary and a number of other others have been standing beneath a colourful, crayon-scrawled banner that learn “HAPPY BELATED OR EARLY BIRTHDAY, PEGGY.” She couldn’t consider they’d put this collectively. The creative worth of the banner was like one thing seen in grade faculty, nevertheless it was the thought that counted — not the truth that nobody really knew when her birthday was.

Mother was shocked as Emilio, Gordon, Gary and a number of other others have been standing beneath a colourful, crayon-scrawled banner that learn “HAPPY BELATED OR EARLY BIRTHDAY, PEGGY.” She couldn’t consider they’d put this collectively. The creative worth of the banner was like one thing seen in grade faculty, nevertheless it was the thought that counted — not the truth that nobody really knew when her birthday was.

“You’re always helping others and so we figured, what the heck?” Emilio stated, smiling. Mother giggled as they introduced out a small sheet cake, a few six-packs of Miller Excessive Life, and one-gallon jugs of Hawaiian Punch fruit drink. Mother spent the remainder of the afternoon within the lounge, consuming. She was in her favourite setting: associates and booze.

The social gathering had a deleterious impact on Mother. She began consuming extra closely within the days after, into the night time, and would wake with a hangover that ruined her mornings, and sometimes afternoons too. Over the subsequent a number of weeks, each time I’d cease in to see her or name, Mother’s persona would change immediately, triggered by my phrases, or simply by somebody coming into the lounge, even a lightweight turned on or off. One minute she was calm, and the subsequent, belligerent and vulgar. I wasn’t positive deal with it.

An added concern was that on the time I used to be being investigated by the New York Police Division’s recruitment division as a result of I used to be making use of to be a police officer. I saved this from Mother out of worry she’d try and sabotage the method. She as soon as advised me she’d say or do something to forestall me from changing into a cop. I believe it was a mix of worry for my security and disdain for authority figures. In my head, I believed I used to be doing it for only one cause: to assist folks. However now I do know there was one other, extra unconscious motivation for my profession selection — my failure to avoid wasting my mom, to avoid wasting her from her most harmful enemy, herself.

Mother continued to function each unofficial mentor and lifetime of the social gathering on the S.R.O. When she was comparatively sober, she continued to tutor Terri, whose studying abilities have been changing into markedly higher. It was commonplace for Mother to spend many of the day along with her — till the consuming began, anyway.

On Halloween one yr, Mother watched the parade alongside Sixth Avenue within the Village. She hid two beers in her purse, taking swigs when the cops weren’t dealing with her. She left earlier than the parade ended. Again on high of the S.R.O. on the rooftop “bar,” issues have been full of life and acquainted, particularly along with her arrival.

“The Queen of the S.R.O. is here, you mothafuckas,” she introduced with a cocky tone, setting down a six-pack of Schlitz on the parapet, in entrance of the standard assortment of misfits.

Mother saved consuming after everybody else left, sitting and staring on the twinkling skyscraper lights. It was after 2 a.m., and for some cause the miserable fact of her scenario crept up on her. She started to weep loudly, not realizing her wails might be heard from residents in neighboring buildings. A type of residents referred to as the S.R.O.’s entrance desk to complain concerning the noise. Chicky went as much as see who it was, discovering Mother pacing, ranting, with a wild look in her eyes. Fearing she would possibly hurt herself, he went again all the way down to the foyer to name 911.

Fortunately, I had been at a celebration close by, on Bleecker Avenue. I’d lately been accepted into the NYPD and was nicely into my probation interval on the police academy. I’d principally prevented seeing her currently as I wished to remain far-off from something that might jeopardize my new profession. I’m unsure why, instinct maybe, however that night time a voice in my head advised me to cease by. After I walked previous the entrance desk, Chicky stated, matter-of-factly, “Hey kid, ya better get up to the roof. Ya mother’s up there, freakin’ the fuck out. Already called the nut job squad.”

In a panic, I ran up the six flights to the roof. She was crouched close to the sting of the roof, sobbing. When she realized I used to be there, only some ft away, she shortly turned to look over the sting. The parapet couldn’t have been greater than three ft excessive, so if she determined to leap, it will have solely required merely leaning over.

I lunged, grabbing her arm, and pulled her tightly into me. We sat on the tarred floor of the roof, and I might not let go whereas she and I cried collectively.

Thirty seconds later, a number of law enforcement officials appeared, shortly adopted by two paramedics. She paused her sobbing lengthy sufficient to inform us she was all proper and simply wanted cry. One of many paramedics stated it was the protocol to take her to Bellevue Hospital for a psychological examination. Mother didn’t resist, and I put my arm round her as we walked down the stairway to the bottom ground.

After a keep within the emergency room, Mother satisfied the docs that she wasn’t a hazard to herself or others, and made her manner again to the S.R.O. I don’t know why — she wrote nothing about that night time in her diary — however Mother concluded the complete episode on the roof was my fault. The following time we spoke, it wasn’t a lot of a dialog, actually, simply Mother ranting and yelling, then hanging up on me.

I felt it was greatest to simply let her vent. Hopefully, this may all go. I used to be quickly going to be full time within the police division; I used to be additionally about to suggest to my girlfriend, and shortly after that, the plan was to have youngsters. My life was on the way in which up, however Mother’s saved taking place.

Whereas I used to be engaged on my household, Mother had discovered her personal type of household on the S.R.O. She received a brand new part-time job — working on the resort’s entrance desk — and the subsequent yr, she had Thanksgiving catered for her internal circle of associates, 11 folks. She bought two turkeys from the diner the place she as soon as labored, pre-carved, with all of the trimmings. The tab was an excellent $100, together with paper plates and plastic utensils. Bigfoot introduced a mover’s dolly and a bit of purple wagon to assist her haul the turkeys dwelling from the diner.

The 11 associates she invited shortly grew to become 15, and by the point they sat down for dinner, 20. Mother served turkey, plopped down mashed potatoes, and poured gravy on plates. The trimmings have been arrange buffet-style, and Bigfoot ate a lot cranberry sauce that his tongue turned purple. One resident complained that Mother had all of the chicken and wasn’t sharing equally, however most everybody was grateful, particularly for the pumpkin pie.

Mother was upset that her closest buddy, Emilio, didn’t seem for the meal. She made up a plate for him and knocked on his door, however there was no reply. She wrapped it in aluminum foil, tucked it right into a plastic bag and left it on the doorknob.

Again downstairs, one of many G&G brothers, Gary, advised her that Emilio had been arrested. “He got busted last night at the meat markets.”

A bunch gathered round to hear in, and Gary received fairly animated as he advised the story. “He was robbin’ dudes at knifepoint! He’d been doin’ this a lot cuz a his crack habit, you know, and I knew they would catch him — undercover vice cop, that’s who. When Emilio pulled a blade on him, a bunch of cops swarmed all over the car they was in. He’s lucky they didn’t beat the bejesus out of him.”

Mother was very apprehensive. She knew Emilio had two prior convictions and could be dealing with some critically lengthy jail time. She would possibly by no means see him once more. She went upstairs, took the bag of meals off his doorknob, and threw it within the trash. She was extra mad at him than sorry. She went as much as her room to drink just a few beers, then fell asleep along with her garments on.

Mother spent the weekend alone in her room, devastated, then determined to go to Emilio in jail on Rikers Island. After producing identification on the guests’ reception space, she boarded a bus that took her over the bridge, the place she was searched and placed on one other bus to the detention heart. After one more search, she was led to the go to room and seated at one of many dozens of tables. Greater than an hour glided by earlier than Emilio entered and sat down throughout from her. He was carrying a grey jumpsuit and plastic slippers.

“Not your best look,” Mother quipped.

“Yeah, I know. Good to see you, Peggy. I heard I missed a good dinner.”

“You did. I made up a plate for you and put it on your doorknob.”

“Thanks, but by the time I get back, it will be long, long gone.”

“Why did you have to do this? You could have asked me for help. That’s what friends do, you know — help.”

“Sorry. I started smokin’ crack again. It’s such a great high, Peggy, the best. But don’t worry, they only got me for one robbery and another attempted. They said five years, but I turned it down cuz I know I can get less.”

Emilio smirked, however Mother knew he was not ready to recreation the system with two prior convictions. That drug had fried his mind.

On the bus again over the bridge, one thing had modified in Mother. She didn’t need to find yourself like Emilio. She needed to get out of the S.R.O. She received off the bus renewed, decided to make issues higher in her life. However I had seen that earlier than, many instances.

Chapter Five: Intervention

Nothing modified, after all. Every night time, it was the identical factor. Both she handed out within the lounge, in a consuming buddy’s room, or alone, in hers.

Terri was transferring out. After enhancing her studying abilities, she took an adult-education course at a close-by group heart, and never lengthy after, earned her highschool equivalency diploma. She was transferring into her boyfriend’s residence within the East Village and had been employed as a receptionist at St. Vincent’s Hospital.

She made a degree of thanking Mother earlier than leaving, telling her, “I wouldn’t have been able to get it had you not helped me read betta’ Peggy. Thank you. Come visit me, when you can.” She gave Mother a chunk of paper along with her new deal with.

“I will, I will,” stated Mother, giving Terri a motherly embrace. Mother by no means visited her. It might have been a painful reminder that she was nonetheless caught on the S.R.O., whereas another person, somebody with barely the abilities to get a highschool diploma, had discovered a manner out.

The true signal of an alcoholic is correct after the morning pee; it’s the very first thing they consider, having a drink, they usually do. The crow’s-feet beneath Mother’s eyes have been spreading, and her hair was thinning, shedding its youthful luster. When the extra caring of her consuming friends realized her decline, they stopped giving her freebies, even stole her stash. The supervisor of the resort, Stewart, fired her from the entrance desk place after she saved lacking shifts or coming down from her room late, unkempt, hungover, combative.

A couple of days after Stewart let her go, she was sitting within the day room doing and nothing, once I walked in. It was 1988, and I’d lately gotten married. Mother had been residing on the Jane West for six years at that time. She had not answered her telephone currently and I used to be involved, greater than regular, this time.

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“How the fuck are you, son?”

“What day is it, Ma?”


“Why aren’t you answering your phone?”

“Why aren’t you coming by the way you used to?”

“I’m married, Ma. It kind of occupies your time.”

“That woman is more important than your mother?”

“That’s not fair, Ma.”

“This fucking hellhole you let me live in is not fair.” This pushed a button in me. With a lot issue, I held in my response and left earlier than beginning a tirade.

Precisely two days later, I used to be again. This time I introduced two colleagues with me: a detective and a civilian worker, each beneath the employment umbrella of the NYPD and assigned to what’s referred to as the Early Intervention Unit. They have been counselors who focus on alcoholism and substance abuse. I made the introductions after which went all the way down to the automobile whereas they spent a while along with her.

They advised me she saved repeating that every part was high-quality. “Why are you here? Why, why, why?” she stated. They advised her she must verify in to a rehabilitation facility. Each counselors advised her they’d been by this system themselves, which helped. The feminine counselor helped Mother pack a bag, then take a bathe.

When she and the counselor walked downstairs to the foyer, Bigfoot rushed as much as Mother, giving her an enveloping hug goodbye. She cried the complete method to the hospital, the place she spent 9 days. The detox course of required her physique to be utterly flushed of alcohol, which might be harmful, even deadly. Her withdrawal signs included anxiousness, insomnia, the shakes, hallucinations and profuse sweating. It was agonizingly tough, however she received by it.

At 11 within the morning on a stupendous Sunday in June, Mother was escorted out of the hospital by the identical counselor who had accompanied her in. She felt rejuvenated throughout the drive alongside the acquainted metropolis streets. They reduce by Central Park, passing a horse and carriage clomping alongside, joggers, workplace employees shopping for meals at carts, {couples} picnicking, and moms speaking, laughing, pushing strollers.

Life is at all times happening someplace, with out you, she thought.

Mother spent 37 days on the Smithers Alcoholism Therapy Middle in an outdated, opulent mansion on the Higher East Facet. She was optimistic, centered and, basically, happier. My spouse, Michelle, was two months pregnant, and it appeared like perhaps little Ray Jr. would have a doting, cookie-baking grandma in spite of everything.

Mother took a typing refresher course and completed high of her class, 120 phrases per minute. She discovered a job on the Time Life company in Midtown. Her task could be in a secretarial pool on the nineteenth ground.

For just a few months, every part went easily. We had twins and Mother referred to as to verify in on the boys each day. She visited and we had picnics within the park. I attempted to persuade her to maneuver out of the S.R.O., however she wouldn’t budge.

Then in the future all hell broke free.

Chapter 6: Getting Out

Richie, the uniformed elevator attendant, snapped, after Bigfoot, who was useless set in opposition to any of his associates utilizing medicine, took a baggie of Richie’s heroin and flushed it down the bathroom. Richie confronted Bigfoot and, not feeling glad with the response, stabbed him within the intestine. My mother was proper there and noticed all of it.

When he heard the police sirens on their manner, Richie sliced his personal throat. A few of his blood splattered on Mother, including to the already grisly scene.

Fortunately, Bigfoot survived the assault. I don’t know if Richie did. However the incident despatched Mother spiraling downward even additional.

She was headed dwelling from an appointment along with her therapist when she received sucked right into a pub and ordered a Guinness, then one other, then two glasses of Glenfiddich single malt scotch. To complete up she ordered 5 pours of Bailey’s Irish Crème, over the rocks. Evidently, she was smashed and needed to be carried out right into a cab. The cabbie, afraid she was going to vomit and never eager about her belligerence, shortly kicked her out. She stumbled down the road and a police automobile pulled up. One of many officers received out and approached her.

“Fuck off, pig!” she yelled.

“Fuck off, pig!” she yelled.

He grabbed her arm, handcuffed her, and guided into the again seat of the police automobile.

“Fuck off!” Mother yelled as she was introduced into the NYPD’s sixth precinct.

The desk sergeant was not in a pleasing temper. “I’ve heard that before, lady.”

One way or the other, from her purse, she produced the little mini-badge I’d given her. “My get out of jail free card.”

The desk sergeant took the badge and studied it. “Hey, I’ve heard of you before. I’ve met your son. He’s at the 120, in Staten Island.”

“You gots it, muddafuckas.”

“What is wrong with you, Mrs. Hannity?”

She answered, with a hiccup, “I’m a rehab survivor.”

Thankfully, the desk sergeant referred to as me and I got here all the way down to the station. Almost in tears, I stated, “Ma, what have you done?”

All six officers within the room stared, cringed, sympathized with me.

“Hi, son. I think I had too much to drink. Looks like old times again.”

It was pouring rain as we received into my automobile.

“When I’m going to see the boys?” she requested. “They’re so cute with the little bums.”

I pulled as much as the resort and double-parked. I rigorously escorted her as much as her room, took her footwear off, and helped her into mattress. I put a glass of water on her nightstand. She handed out in lower than a minute.

With Bigfoot within the hospital, his absence actually sunk in. Had he nonetheless been right here, I may have requested him to investigate cross-check her. He was like a superhero when Mother’s well being was at stake. I actually missed the massive oaf now. I sat in a chair in her room, for over an hour. She received up as soon as to vomit within the lavatory. She didn’t even see me. After her head hit the pillow once more, I left.

Per week later, the identical factor occurred once more. This time, I used to be not contacted. She was arrested, given a desk look ticket and a courtroom date. She obtained a sentence, which was to report back to the New York Metropolis Sanitation storage, inside strolling distance of the S.R.O., for group service. She was assigned to be a neighborhood avenue cleaner for 3 eight-hour shifts, totaling 24 hours.

By that Friday, Mother had accomplished her group service and went to the legal courts constructing at hand in her proof of attendance. The lady behind the desk gave her a validation copy and one other kind stating that she had accomplished her sentence. Mother left the constructing with a sense of accomplishment. On the way in which dwelling, she stopped on the nook bodega close to the resort intending to purchase a six-pack of Miller, however by some means managed to search out the power to not.

On New Yr’s Eve, she drank a lot she handed out. She wakened within the lounge, with a celebration hat on, and referred to as me.

“Happy New Year, son. How’s life?”

“Life is fine, Ma. What’s up with you?” I may inform by her voice that she was in a troubled temper.

“Nothing. Just spoke with my boss at Time Life. He said they didn’t need me anymore, that my temporary assignment was done. I’m on the short list to come back soon.”

“OK, that’s good.” That was not good. She was the perfect typist within the pool. I sensed in her voice she had been fired.

Mother’s life spiraled even additional uncontrolled. She spent all of her time on the resort. She made new associates, who have been much more troublesome, should you can think about that, and drank to extra each day. She referred to as at the very least as soon as per week, however neither Michelle or I answered the telephone after we noticed it was her. She left messages on our answering machine that have been obscure.

On April 5, 1992, Mother was within the day room with “friends,” consuming and laughing. All of a sudden, she skilled a really unusual feeling. Her face felt as if it was turning to stone. She received up and made a name on the pay telephone, to me. As she was leaving a message, I picked up. Calmly, she stated, “Ray, it’s time.”

On April 5, 1992, Mother was within the day room with “friends,” consuming and laughing. All of a sudden, she skilled a really unusual feeling. Her face felt as if it was turning to stone. She received up and made a name on the pay telephone, to me. As she was leaving a message, I picked up. Calmly, she stated, “Ray, it’s time.”

“Time for what, Ma?”

“Don’t worry, because things always work out in the end. I love you,” and he or she hung up the telephone.

The following day, I made a decision to go to her on the S.R.O. I walked previous Stewart, who was studying a newspaper on the entrance desk, however earlier than I received to the stairwell, he stopped me.

“Ray, your mother left last night.”

“What do you mean, she left?”

“Here.” Stewart held out an envelope for me to take. “She gave this to me, to give to you.”

I opened the letter and sat down in a wobbly chair to learn it:

Expensive Ray,

I’m sorry it needed to be this fashion, nevertheless it’s for the perfect. I can’t reside like this anymore, bringing you down if you find yourself already so tall. I do know I’ve worn out my welcome. I’ve determined to attempt to make a brand new life for myself, no matter which may be. I purchased an honest journey suitcase, pooled all my financial savings, and so by the point you learn this, I will likely be on a Greyhound bus headed west. I’ve at all times wished to see America. Everybody says New York is New York, nothing like the remainder of the nation, so I assume then I don’t actually know the world, or the actual America. I’ll guess there are fascinating folks on the market identical to us, with related joys and struggles. I’d like to satisfy them. I hope, in the future, to succeed in out to you to provide you higher information. Please keep in mind that I’ll at all times love you and your great household. I’ve enclosed some financial savings bonds for the boys. Have Stewart provide the key to my room. Something value taking is yours.

Love, Mother

I stared on the letter for what appeared the longest time, not realizing what to assume or do. She had enclosed two U.S. financial savings bonds for the boys, $500 every. I requested Stewart for Mother’s room key, walked up the 4 flights of stairs and unlocked her door. What I noticed inside left me speechless. On the mattress have been photographs of me as a toddler, my chewed-up child rattle and tattered teddy bear, all neatly wrapped in clear plastic. I couldn’t consider that in spite of everything she had been by, she saved this stuff from my childhood. This meant, whereas homeless, she was carrying this stuff round.

I made a fast stock of the room and found a stack of spiral notebooks that had functioned as her diary for the previous few years (and are the supply for a lot of the fabric on this story, together with numerous different notes she saved, scribbled on bits of paper and napkins). I packed all of them into a number of buying luggage.

Since I’d left the door open, I observed three folks attempting to peek in from the hallway. One in every of them requested if I used to be taking the radio, however I didn’t trouble to reply. I left the room unlocked so the resident scavengers may take no matter was left, which they began to do even earlier than I received to the stairwell.

After I received to the underside, I glanced into the lounge one final time. I may solely see a bedraggled man, sleeping in a chair, with a guide on his lap.

I went again into the foyer and appeared up on the garish, dusty chandeliers and smiled. I sighed, chuckled, and walked out the double entrance door, gleeful to by no means once more must set foot in that godforsaken place, the Jane West Resort.


I didn’t hear from Mother till a number of years later. She was residing in one other S.R.O., on the Higher West Facet, this one designed for tenants over the age of fifty. She appeared a lot older and had gained substantial weight. I nearly didn’t acknowledge her at first.

She advised me she had traveled to Nashville, New Orleans, Chicago, San Francisco, and some different smaller locations, like Topeka, Kansas, and Cheyenne, Wyoming, selecting up money alongside the way in which by waitressing or taking up odd jobs like handing out promoting leaflets on avenue corners.

It was unusual seeing her once more, nearly like beginning throughout. Although her well being was poor, she appeared extra upbeat, constant in demeanor. However she had misplaced the spark in her step, and with the added weight, was not too cell.

I allowed her to return by to see Michelle and the boys, who have been in grade faculty now. Finally, we even let her babysit them twice per week. It labored out fairly nicely, contemplating her prior conduct. She wasn’t good, however accountable sufficient.

She was high-quality for almost a yr, however then the demons got here again. She started to speak nonsensically, rambling on about issues which have been principally of concern solely to her.

I transitioned to the Hearth Division and was understanding of Engine 9, in Chinatown, on September 11, 2001. After all, everyone knows what occurred that day. Our engine firm was one of many first on the scene. I miraculously survived the collapse of the North Tower by working out of the foyer because the constructing got here down, diving beneath a tow truck not removed from the entrance door. I used to be OK, comparatively, after crawling out from a pile of poisonous rubble.

Mother was now again to her outdated self. The late-night calls from the police and hospital emergency rooms have been getting extra frequent. In Might of 2002, she was admitted to St. Luke’s Roosevelt Hospital with a mess of maladies. After I arrived on the hospital, I used to be advised her kidneys and liver have been failing. They promised to do no matter they might, although, inevitably, in some unspecified time in the future, her physique would merely cease.

On Mom’s Day, Might 11, 2002, when my spouse and I arrived on the hospital, the docs knowledgeable me that Mother had lapsed right into a coma and a number of bodily features had shut down. She was being saved alive solely by a respirator. After conferring with them, we agreed the respirator needs to be shut off.

Her mom, my grandmother, had additionally died on a Mom’s Day, Might 11, after succumbing to most cancers 17 years earlier. They’re buried beside each other in Woodlawn Cemetery within the Bronx, mom and daughter, hopefully, lastly, at peace.

As for the S.R.O? In 2008, the Jane West Resort was bought by builders for a cool $27 million and remodeled into a classy boutique resort. The primary-floor lounge the place my mom spent so many days socializing is now a glossy restaurant the place you possibly can get pleasure from black truffle shavings over “peasant pasta” earlier than settling down for an evening in one of many vintage-wallpaper-lined guestrooms.

You’ll even get entry to the shared unisex lavatory.

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